I had one of those days last weekend where I woke up with a great burst of energy and determination. I was not stiff or sore. No need to take any pain relievers (actually, as of today 1/18 - I went 6 days without any tylenol or ibuprofen; and took maybe 2000mg total over a 10 day period. AWESOME!).
I set off for a one hour, intense work out at the YMCA at 8am. It felt fantastic and hard. Then it all changed. It felt like I had spun around 100 times, ran 10 miles, and was carrying a 60-pound pack through a thick, dark, musty swamp. My stamina was shot! Despite my long list of to-do items thoughtfully written out the night before including working from home, all my determination to be productive was gone and nothing got done except the essential which was walking to the bathroom or kitchen, grocery shopping and making a dish for our first Highland House pot luck dinner.
My body and mind have not spoken this clearly and loudly in a long time... "STOP AND REST!". I had no choice but to surrender.
I set off for a one hour, intense work out at the YMCA at 8am. It felt fantastic and hard. Then it all changed. It felt like I had spun around 100 times, ran 10 miles, and was carrying a 60-pound pack through a thick, dark, musty swamp. My stamina was shot! Despite my long list of to-do items thoughtfully written out the night before including working from home, all my determination to be productive was gone and nothing got done except the essential which was walking to the bathroom or kitchen, grocery shopping and making a dish for our first Highland House pot luck dinner.
My body and mind have not spoken this clearly and loudly in a long time... "STOP AND REST!". I had no choice but to surrender.
Sunday night our first week at the Highland House was capped with a delicious pot luck dinner and house meeting.
I've noticed that my stomach has been sensitive to foods lately, even citrus in the morning. This tells me that I have some emotional build up. I've definitely had "emotional seeping"... where tears or a dip in mood come suddenly and unexpectedly in various situations. It's not great. I should probably create a container for some emotional release. I'm putting a lot of pressure on myself to perform my 40 hour work week, be present with clients and staff, friends and family and housemates. But I'm fading fast...
I woke up tearful and exhausted beyond comprehension, crawling through the day at a snail's pace. Yet, not even thinking to take pain medication; I just didn't need it. Alon watched me struggle in the morning and gently held me and encouraged me to go to work. I acknowledged my feelings of wanting to stay in bed, feeling the weight of depression and fatigue come over me like a tsunami. I was almost breathless. With his encouragement, I carried on and was able to show up for my staff and my clients in a fairly low capacity but still present. I was glad for that but I still ask myself if it was the right choice.
Next day... I feel like maybe my stride is picking up a bit. I had wonderful one hour massage this afternoon with Bree, which my leg and body were so hungry for. I feel much stronger in my morning routine, meaning when I get up out of bed I don't have to lean on the wall for a few minutes to stretch my leg or shake off the stiffness or gain strength. I can just get up and go (with a little limp). The pain and stiffness are just that much less. It's great! Lots of people are commenting on how much better I am walking during the day, so that's really nice to hear/see.
Little thing... A pillow between my legs while sleeping is still comforting, though I've realized not as essential. I still toss and turn a lot. I can lay on my back more comfortably allowing my left leg to relax (sometimes). That said, there is a new-ish pain and discomfort, a tightness perhaps, in my knee when I try to straighten my leg. More PT, more extension, more time will help it along.
Patience and not being hard on myself are by far the most difficult challenges right now. It was a lot easier to give myself a break when I was laid up at home for two and half months. After Christmas I was really hoping to resume a 40 hour work week, still attending to two-two hour PT appointments per week and other daily work outs at the gym. I'm realizing I just can't cut it... I feel like I'm letting myself down and others... though I was fairly reassured today by coworkers that I'm still doing a good job and working hard. My stamina and motivation at work are definitely suffering.
Cliches come to mind... We are our own worst enemy (and critic). If I don't have my health, I have nothing - it's true. I must take time again to really focus on the path that supports me in being the happiest, healthiest, and best person I can be right now. I'm struggling a bit with it, but I know I am where I am supposed to be, and all will work out.
Much love to all of you have been with me and supporting me during this crazy Rite of Passage! I love you all. Knowing your love and support are out there brings me up and gives me clarity in the really difficult times. Thank you!
Patience and not being hard on myself are by far the most difficult challenges right now. It was a lot easier to give myself a break when I was laid up at home for two and half months. After Christmas I was really hoping to resume a 40 hour work week, still attending to two-two hour PT appointments per week and other daily work outs at the gym. I'm realizing I just can't cut it... I feel like I'm letting myself down and others... though I was fairly reassured today by coworkers that I'm still doing a good job and working hard. My stamina and motivation at work are definitely suffering.
Cliches come to mind... We are our own worst enemy (and critic). If I don't have my health, I have nothing - it's true. I must take time again to really focus on the path that supports me in being the happiest, healthiest, and best person I can be right now. I'm struggling a bit with it, but I know I am where I am supposed to be, and all will work out.
Much love to all of you have been with me and supporting me during this crazy Rite of Passage! I love you all. Knowing your love and support are out there brings me up and gives me clarity in the really difficult times. Thank you!
